Why Women Fake Orgasm?

Everybody heard rumours about women faking orgasms. Is that true? The majority of women have faked at least one orgasm, yet some fake almost all of them. Why do they do that? There are many reasons and the case is that there's no one to blame.

The most common are two reasons: they don't want to make their partners feel bad or they are tired and just want to end sex. Most females say that their partners are not satisfied until the girls feels orgasm, there's only one way to make them feel happy and stop the exhausting procedure - fake.

Another reason is that a typical female doesn't seek for orgasm; she desires a sexual relationship only because she wants intimacy. Still, such an attitude may make her partner feel bad. The only way out is to fake it out.

Some women never really experience orgasm while making sex, but they want their partner to feel good about himself and her. Men usually expect women to have pleasure, that's why females have no other choice. They have to fake to have a good relationship.

Loss of interest, having sex only because the partner wants to, also makes women to fake. Most females talk to their friends about such things and while they know other women act it, they do so too, because it's an easier way to have a good relationship.

When a man tries very hard, sometimes even too hard to make his woman have an orgasm, the woman usually finds it better to fake it than to disappoint her partner once again. They fear rejection if a man wouldn't understand her, they don't want to offend men because the absence of an orgasm is actually not their fault.

Some women may have health problems. If, while experiencing she becomes too sensitive and wants to stop, she fakes an orgasm in order to stop and relax. Orgasm may also cause discomfort and pain; that's a serious problem and she can't be blamed for faking. In such cases, most women prefer and enjoy orgasm more during solitary masturbation. Although they feel better while having orgasm themselves, they want to make their partner feel good too, so they act an orgasm out.

A female orgasm can be most easily faked by a good actress. There are few options: gripping something tightly; moaning loudly; breathing deeply; burying face into something (pillow); doing kegels or anything else at least remotely dramatic or climatic.

What to do if you think your partner is faking? Talk about it. Maybe she knows some special position or action that would make her happy. Don't get angry if she admits faking. Try to solve the problem, but don't get too far, don't try too hard because it may become an exhausting activity rather than an act of love.

Women act and men can do nothing about it; and maybe they shouldn't? Try to find out the real reasons of faking and discus possible ways out. Don't blame your partner for it; it's natural for women to do so from time to time. Show her your passion, love and try to understand her. Don't be an egoist in such an important part of relationship.

Perfuming For Seduction

Mankind made a huge progress in several thousand years; however we are still dependant on five of our senses. You may not believe it, but the most important thing that decides whether we like person or not is smell. Don’t be hurry to deny it. We do take an image and communication in account, but subconsciously we are very sensitive to smells. More than that, there are certain scents that make us feel euphoric, worry us or even seduce us. If you’ve ever traveled next to a perfumed person you know that smell can be irritating. However, we don’t “register” all the smells with our conscious mind, but they influence us greatly.

Though natural body smell (not a stink of course!) is considered the most sexual, there are some scents used in perfume business that can make us passionate. Some perfumes appeal to our emotions and charm us. What scents should one choose to charm others?

Musk is a part of almost all perfumes; however, it’s not the main accent of them all. The exiting impact of musk has been known for centuries and even thousands of years. What’s so special about it? We react to musk smell as to great portion of pheromones. The scent attracts attention to a person who wears it. Musky smell is considered wild and close-to-nature and, of course, sexual. It can be worn both by men and women; however, most perfumes world wide are dedicated for females. Musk is also considered a “heavy” scent, but most perfumes contain more than one note, so you can find the one that suits you.

Woodsy and spicy tones make us interested and grab attention as well as musk scent. Wood blend is rather dedicated for men. Rich cedar and sandalwood scents are both refreshing and inspiring. Wood scents also are considered very natural and appealing to our senses. Timber and moss remind us of nature, they are cozy, but rather stimulating than calming.

Oriental perfumes are considered sexual as they are exotic. And exotic, unusual things attract people a lot. Oriental perfumes are made of an interesting mix of woods, amber, vanilla scents and others. They are recommended for eveningwear. They might be too “heavy” for daywear and young persons, as oriental smell is considered sophisticated and mature.

Floral scents are sexual in a different way. Jasmine, rose and other blends show a feminine person that is also tender, funny, romantic and sweet. Floral tones disclose a woman that is in need to be under someone’s guardianship, while a woman wearing heavy perfumes, even those dedicated for men, is considered strong and passionate. You can find each case sexual, as it actually depends on what kind of woman you are looking for and/or what kind of woman you feel you are.

Now perfumes that remind us of edible things attract us in two ways. “Edible” scents not only smell nice, they smell delicious. They also remind us of certain food and we can feel the taste deep in our imagination. I bet you know a girl that is sweet as vanilla or a boy that is spicy like cinnamon and cloves. “Edible” perfumes (also called Gourmand) are a great way to be in the center of attention.

Accessory Trends for 2007 Summer

Accessory is one of the most important parts in your style. You may wear excessively fashionable clothes but your style will never be complete without the trendiest accessory. These small details make your style unique and noticeable. As far as shops are full of bright colored clothes with big flowers or futuristic details, accessory for 2007 summer is also very bright, big and eye-catching.

Bags

The first thing that comes to mind while talking about accessories is bags. A real lady couldn't ever leave home without this little (or maybe large) useful detail. Only celebrities could catch up with all bag trends, yet you may purchase at least one and be sure it'll make you look fashionable with various combinations of clothes.

This summer you should definitely have an excessively bright and unusually shaped bag. Don't pay attention to the fact that after this season you'll have to put it deeply in your closet. The history of bags and other accessories is commonly repeated every several years, so you'll be pleasantly surprised and able to wear your original bag once again.

All famous fashion names, such as Versace, Gucci and others, recommend silver or golden colors. The form may remind of old grandmas suitcase or an alien head - the more interesting, the better. It can also be decorated with twinkling stones or fake gems.

Head

You have to be careful not to get sunstroke. Therefore you must have at least one hat made of straws. The most fashionable hat this year is a straw hat, black with wide edges and a rounded vertex girded with a band. If you're wearing a light beach dress with flowers, pick a white hat and you'll certainly be noticed.

Another trendy way to cover your head is a turban. No matter what you're wearing - an evening dress or sport clothes, a turban will definitely make you look good and fashionable. It looks very extraordinary, so be ready for attention.

If you don't like to cover your head with hats, not even talking about turbans, at least gird your head with a wide, fashionable band or rolled scarf.

Waist

All the fashion collections, without any exception emphasize women waist. It's time to stress the most beautiful part of a woman's figure. Various shaped leather belts cope with this task without any problems.

The trendiest ones are the widest ones. However, if you prefer small details - a thin belt with a huge gilded belt-buckle will do perfectly.

Futuristic belts with bright pink or orange verges are also very popular. These go excessively well with bright and flowered dresses.

Glasses

The sunglasses industry has been revolutionized. The most important feature of this season is size. Famous designers' collections are filled with large, rounded sunglasses that have wide plastic frames. This accessory is required to be double-colored; for example, red-black, while-black and yellow-white.

Bijouterie

Huge, interestingly shaped metal and plastic bracelets, large ear rings, ramshackle necklaces and even leather collars are fashionable as never before. They are large enough to be noticeable and even if you don't wear them for a long time you'll have something very impressive for some special occasions.

Don't forget that purchasing a fashionable thing doesn't mean that you'll be looking fashionable only because you wear it. Try to look for an accessory that would fit perfectly with your clothing, your daily makeup, your hairdo, and, of course, your character.